Entries from February 2009

February 27, 2009

Inside the brain of a Christian Psychologist

Ever wanted to get inside the head of a christian psychologist? Now you can explore the CAT scan images of a psychologist’s head courtesy of yours truly. Consider offering diagnoses and explanations as to how such an mind might work.

These images were taken to rule other matters that might be causing sinusitis. I found looking [...]

February 26, 2009

Why we give hollow confessions

On a way too regular basis we observe others making apologies and/or confessions for wrongs done. This morning in my house, my one son hurt the feelings of the other and in working through the problem he made his apology under our direction. Not to be outdone, the other son wasn’t truthful about the situation [...]

February 25, 2009

Breaking down Christian Counseling barriers

Maybe it’s a stage of life, maybe I’m hallucinating, but it seems to me that the divisions withing Christian forms of counseling are exploding. And to that I can only say hurrah!!
Let me give you the clifnotes version of American Christian counseling history (minus many important details) starting with the 20th century:

Fundamentalist/Modernist fallout after the [...]

February 24, 2009

1 Corinthians 7: Whose body is trump?

Now for the matters you wrote about: ‘It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.’ But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and [...]

February 23, 2009

Open letter to NBC and P & G

February 23, 2009
Dear Executives at NBC and P&G (owners of the Gillette Venus Embrace),
I write this letter to express my disappointment regarding your Venus Embrace razor “check please” advertisements during the broadcast of the 2009 Tyson American Cup–a gymnastics meet of the top elite men’s and women’s gymnasts from around the world.
On Saturday afternoon, NBC [...]

February 20, 2009

Please “Lie to Me”

Have you caught the television show, “Lie to Me”? It is a newer show based on the work of psychologist Paul Ekman who has researched the ways we involuntarily respond (movements, facial expressions, eyes, etc.) when lying. If you are bored, try watching your friends and family as you ask them penetrating questions. Last night I [...]

February 19, 2009

What discourages you?

Spoke today to a group of pastors about encouragement and discouragement in their ministries and lives. Generally speaking, our levels of either fluctuate with our expectations crashing into reality. When things go as we hoped, we feel encouraged. When they don’t for periods of time, we get discouraged.
What discourages pastors? Many struggle with knowing just [...]

February 18, 2009

Access to short christian counseling articles

I’ve noticed that the American Association of Christian Counselors has made many of their magazine (Christian Counseling Today) articles available for free on their www.ecounseling.com website. You can search by author or keyword to find what you might be looking for.  
My 800 word essay on repentance after abuse can be found here. A longer and [...]

February 17, 2009

Racial put downs compared to others

Two times in the last monthone of my children has been racialized. During an exchange amongst a group of friends where they were trading (not so) humerous barbs, the other child made a racial comment about my son’s skin color or hair. These comments were made by children having received from another some comment designed to make fun of [...]

February 16, 2009

Wanna see a MA Counseling program in action?

For those of you in the Philadelphia region and considering an Masters degree in Counseling you are hereby invited to our March 9th “taste of Biblical Seminary.” This open house is just for those interested in a counseling degree and will expose attendees to what we do at Biblical. You’ll come hear from profs and students, have [...]